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Looking to start up...

Tue, 2010-01-26 06:41
Hello ladies, hope all is well.

I got some good pictures (not professional but will do for now) and everything set to go but not sure where else to advertise besides Craigslist and SF Redbook. Anyone recommend any sites that's free or cheap with good to decent traffic in it?

FYI: I'm in the SF Bay Area in the US.
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Call for Submissions! 10/24: New York Sex Work(er) Film & Video Fest

Tue, 2010-01-26 06:41
Hi all,

A few folks are trying to put this together. We'd love for you to submit work or volunteer/get involved in any capacity! Please help make this event happen. New York, we're ready!

Thanks all!

Yours,
Sarah Jenny
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http://www.sarahjenny.org/blog/2009/09/14/call-for-submissions-new-york-sex-worker-film-video-fest/

New York Sex Work(er) Film & Video Fest is a one day Film and Video art festival screening recent works including shorts, documentaries, and experimental works by and about sex workers. A panel discussion on sex work and the law, media, and art as well as an after party will follow.

When/Where

* October 24, 2009 (Time TBA)
* UnionDocs: 322 Union Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11211, [http://www.uniondocs.org/].

Submission Cost
FREE

All proceeds from this event go to support community activist work.

Submit Your Film/Video
Please send a link to your work for submission, the title, director, 200 word or less synopsis, year (ex 2007), location (ex. US), and length (ex. 8min), and a URL if applicable (ex. http://www.sexworkerfilm.com) by October 1st for consideration. If selected, you will be required to send in a DVD, to be received by October 20.

Send to: sarahjenny@gmail.com or contact for mailing address.

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Categories: Sex Worker Advocacy

Tonight (05/05/09): Frontline on PBS: "Sex Slaves"

Tue, 2010-01-26 06:41
Tonight on Frontline on PBS, they will re-broadcast a documentary about the sexual trafficking of women:

"An undercover journey deep into the world of sex trafficking, following one man determined to rescue his wife -- kidnapped and sold into the global sex trade."

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/

An exerpt:
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/slaves/

"This week on FRONTLINE, an undercover journey deep into the world of sex trafficking, as one man attempts to rescue his wife --kidnapped and sold into the global sex trade."

"...In "Sex Slaves," Tuesday night's rebroadcast of one of our more popular programs, producer Ric Esther Bienstock explores the widening problem of sex trafficking through the extraordinary story of Viorel, Katia, and a trafficker named "Vlad," who sells Katia into the hands of one of the Black Sea region's most notorious pimps. Vlad then pushes Viorel, Katia's husband, to pose as a trafficker himself to get her back."

"I didn't want to make a 'victim' film that told someone's story in retrospect," producer Bienstock explains. "We all know that trafficking is really terrible. What we don't know is how it really works, how do people numbering in the hundreds of thousands end up literally enslaved by their 'owners'? I wanted to talk to traffickers, I wanted to see them in action..."
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Outcall Services on CraigsList...

Tue, 2010-01-26 06:41
I don't want to seem like a doomsday sort of chick, but here is another example as to why we sexworkers need to be cautious. These incidents have to do with outcall services listed on CraigsList:

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090417/ap_on_re_us/craigslist_killer

As always, please excercise caution no matter what method you use to reach clients; you just never know who you're dealing with.
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Post your thoughts on Change.org

Tue, 2010-01-26 06:41
I just saw a link on $pread's blog to a thing on Change.org urging Obama to "Confront the Sex Worker Industry".

Would be nice if sex workers ourselves shared our thoughts as to what might and might not be useful?
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Desivio

Tue, 2010-01-26 06:41
I learned about this via The Stranger: someone in Seattle has created a Craig's list clone called Desivio. It's not very active as yet but it has categories for several cities. Erotic Service ads are free.

I'm not sure how it will work out but thought it would be good to throw out here.
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New Orleans: Courtesans In The Big Easy

Wed, 2010-01-20 17:43
A few years ago, I purchased "Storyville Portraits", a fascinating book containing the pictures of New Orleans prostitutes taken by photographer E.J. Bellocq circa 1912. Between 1897 and 1917, New Orleans had numerous legalized brothels, ranging from elegant establishments to seedy rooms known as "cribs", within Storyville, the city's red light district.

Some of the prostitutes who posed for Bellocq were dressed in formal evening attire, some were naked, some were clad in their undergarments. He had developed a comfortable rapport with these ladies and allowed them to pose any way they wished.

Bellocq's beautiful and haunting photos provided the inspiration for Louis Malle's 1978 film "Pretty Baby".

While a few of the photos might be considered a bit risqué by some, they are not exploitative, and in fact, depict a loving and even somewhat poignant view of ladies of the evening in a more innocent and gracious era.

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Round 2!

Thu, 2009-12-31 19:50
So I'm going back into sex work after a 4 month absence and I cannot be happier. I genuinely love this job, and want to know who else out there does. I know there are a lot of us out there who are supporting kids on their own, addictions, various other things that somewhat force you into this "immoral" lifestyle, but there are also people out there like me, who just like doing it.

I was a member here a while back with a different LJ (I made one specifically for the job this time around), and couldn't help but notice that it was all notices and warnings and all that jazz, which is good, but lets get to know each other a little better, yeah? We girls gotta stick together in this whore eat whore world!
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Be careful: prostitutes are victims of serial killers who are long-haul truckers

Thu, 2009-12-31 19:50
Those of us ladies-of-the-evening who work the streets - myself included - are particularly vulnerable to violent tricks. An article in today's Los Angeles Times details the concerns of the FBI and their special task force, the Highway Serial Killings Initiative, which states that prostitutes, hitchhikers, and others who frequent truck stops have been victims of serial killers employed as long-haul truckers.

According to the article, the FBI has a database which keeps track of:

"...more than 500 female crime victims, most of whom were killed and their bodies discarded at truck stops, motels and other locations along popular trucking routes crisscrossing the U.S.

The database also has information on scores of truckers who've been charged with killings or rapes committed near highways or who are suspects in such crimes, officials said. Authorities said they do not have statistics on whether driving trucks ranks high on the list of occupations of known serial killers.

But the pattern in roadside body dumps and other evidence has prompted many investigators to speculate that the mobility, lack of supervision and access to potential victims that come with the job make it a good cover for someone inclined to kill..."

You can read the entire article here:
http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/la-me-serialkillers5-2009apr05,0,2434292.story?page=1

To all my sisters of the street: PLEASE be careful. Use the "buddy system" whenever possible.
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Wishing All My Sisters In The Life All The Best for New Year 2010!

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
Just a note to say "Happy New Year" to all of my sister sex workers here on this LJ community. I wish you all the best for 2010, and, as always: be safe.
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pompeii girls for sale only 2 copper coins, be in quick

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
I found an interesting doco about the sex trade in a land long ago. http://www.watchseries-online.com/2009/08/sex-in-ancient-world-1x1-pompeii.html Sex in the Ancient World - 1x1 - Pompeii The oldest known brothel in the world is discovered in Pompeii. A startling system is revealed that includes widespread prostitution and sexual slavery. Experts piece together the elaborate system and show how the sex trade helped reinforce class and power in Ancient Rome. Even back then I felt the love for the girls and said a wee pray for those forced into it.

Categories: Sex Worker Advocacy

The Human Porno Project

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
I apologize if this is not allowed but I thought some of you might be interested in my latest cause.
A website dedicated to showing smart can be sexy. We're looking for girls interested in having their own webshow

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I apologize if this is not allowed but I thought some of you might be interested in my latest cause.
A website dedicated to showing smart can be sexy. We're looking for girls interested in having their own webshow

for more info please go <a href-"http://mindbrat.wordpress.com/2009/07/18/the-human-porno-project/">here</a>
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15yr old high class sexworker in uk.

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1155502/Suspicious-teacher-exposes-double-life-girl-15-earning-100-000-year-upmarket-prostitute.html

A 15yr old girl was found out to be a prostitute..not only that, a high class one, & earning £100,000 pa.
See link.

Though the issues that this girl is under-age is not under despute.
They have confiscated £8,000 they found..but why? Who gets that? It makes you wonder doesn`t it? Maybe though they are using it in evidence in some way, if thats the case they should say so. minor or not, she obviously worked for the money & deserves it back.
The stance because she is legally a minor, is that she is a victim...but what if she wasn`t? She probably is now, because she will see it as a way of getting away from the blame & social stigma created when such things like this happen.
So back to what I was saying, what if she wasn`t a victim? What if she wanted to make money & make it fast? What if she was using the youthful advange within the sex industry to harvest while the goings good!
There can be few jobs in this world where the possibility to make more money as a young, fresh person than your older counterparts.
As you get older in the sex industry you tend to re-define yourself in a futile catch-up process that you lose as the years pass by.
I am quite angry at the response to this girl, because as usual, huge assumptions are made.
Categories: Sex Worker Advocacy

Escort websites

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
I'm thinking about setting up a website. I haven't built a web page since the '90s, and I know next to nothing about how to get it found by search engines, so I'm thinking it would probably be best if I have it professionally done. Any suggestions for website designers I could use for this?
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are we in a recession ??

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
HOW TO WORK AS A TRANSEXUAL SEX WORKER WHO IS 33 YEARS OLD AND CANT DO INCALLS AND HAS $0 TO START OFF WITH.


fOR starters I have a cellphone and a lap top. Those tools give me sumthing to do all day while i wait arround for something to happen.

I get work off of CL but I cant even afford the $5 thing right now. I gonna borrow a credit card as soon as i make $5.

Right now I got adds up on

Red boook gender impaired section

sexyescort adds
Sex CIA

On Bay area classifieds I have an erotic add about to disapear in to the " 30days and its gone" status.
I also just put up a sex housecleaning add in household svc.

All theese adds link to my personal site
sybillamb.webs.com
were i have a some ok pics and Its a free site I assembled in a few hours.

My personal site has key words like "shemale escorts of oakland" and "naked housecleaner"

hopefully over the next few weeks I can convince google to move me up higher in the search returns.




I have a personal porn site owned by an agent that i havent worked on in 3 years. I'm schedualling friends to help me work on adding new pics to my personal site and also offshoots to my old porn site that would generate some coin if i squeezed it hard enuff. If i send lenny a few pic sets I could prolly ask for some operating cash.

I was at the sex workers health clinic, St.JamesInfirmery, yesterday. I have an appointment to talk about getting them to 'script me androgen pills so i can have functionality when i need it. I also applied for a job there cuz i heart sex workers and community centers.

I registered an eros add but at $150 a month I'm dreaming.

as for the not having my own place part i just found out about thehottubs in sf were you can get a private hot tub room for $40 an hour.

Right now I'm just Procrastinating before I update my alt.com and TGpersonals.com dating profiles. y'know so i can do the "dating=companionship thing" and get more mail.

I might start my own Yahoo.groups but i refuse to make a fan site of myself. I dont got enuff pics yet.

here's a few other escort sites i cant afford yet:

eros.com --- $150 a month
eastbay.backpage ---$1 !!! for a month.
lovings.com ---$300 for 3 months

plus paper adds in the leftis weeklies
plus some new clothes and subway money and soe oisturiser to stop my face from aging any further...


also for pics I'm soliciting photoshoots on model mayhem and retro kitten.

I got a dominatrix girlfriend, a lover at a porn company, and a lot of great supportive friends.


cOULD ANYBUDDY PLEASE TELL ME SOME MORE PLACES TO ADVERTISE MYSELF ??!?!

hONESTLY I've only really been promoting myself for a week this time.
Its just that buisiness was way better when i was 4 years younger doing incalls in philadelphia.

Oh yeh !! AOL !! I gonna do me an AOL profile after i take a tea break.

The very last thing I spent money on before going flat broke was a new haircut and getting my shoe fixed. I look great, new hot pics soon n' stuff.


why the heck am i entering week 2 of getting just one or two contact a day who never even books a meet up ?

seriously. Am i forgetting something or is the recession starting to happen ?? The recession was a big topic at the st. james.

As soona s i make a few dollars I'm gonna go see if i can endure Diva's the working girl bar. I don't drink but I might cuz I cant take that much house music.
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Online adverts..

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
2 bay are questions

HI, I'm a trans-gedert erotic service provider in oakland-sanfag and I'm taking a hit from the craigslist $5 fee thing.

question 1. I got a personal site, add on redbook, gonna try to readvert on craigs in regular personals. a few other sating sites.

what are good sites to fish for clients in the bay area ??

and yeh, I'm trans and cant do incalls, so you can see i like chalenges.

2. What are the sex work support resources like in the bay ??? cus i like little baskets of free lube and pamphlets ?? is STELLA hiring ??
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Spread magazine in desperate need of staff!

Thu, 2009-12-31 15:28
Spread magazine are in desperate need of staff, if you offer any help, please do!

DESPERATE CALL FOR NEW STAFF Calling $pread fans: If you want to see us keep publishing, now is the time to step up and help! Most of our core staff have left in the past year, including three out of four editors (the last one is leaving in a few months), our art director, financial director, ad director, and new media director. A few very dedicated staffers are holding the magazine together but they desperately need help. People are always telling us that $pread is important but now we need you to put your time where your mouth is and get on board so we can keep it going. We currently don’t have the resources to coordinate with long distance volunteers so we’re looking for people in the NYC area who can attend weekly Sunday meetings and dedicate at least ten hours a week to $pread (although you don’t need to be able to work during regular office hours). Volunteers MUST be reliable, self-motivated, and willing to jump in at the deep end and pitch in with whatever needs to be done. We are specifically looking for people with design skills, but we need general volunteers too. We also ask that you make a commitment to $pread for at least a year. We know this is a lot to ask of unpaid staff but $pread has always relied on such dedicated volunteers. The original team who have kept $pread going over the past few years are thoroughly burned out and can’t do it anymore so we need an enthusiastic new team to take over. So, if you live in New York and care about $pread, please put your life on hold and step up to help us get through the next year. Email info@spreadmagazine.org if you can help.
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